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Yyou are amazing
Whether we recently connected, like now, or months ago, I really appreciate your desire to improve your relationship life.
It takes courage and self-love to do that, and to stand up for yourself and what you want.
That’s why you’re amazing.
It feels really good to be appreciated, right?
Carina, my partner, and I started sharing compliments early in our relationship and never stopped because it felt so good.
Do I ever get tired of hearing that I’m pretty and sexy?
At all.
Or acceptable for listening during a difficult conversation?
No.
Evaluations flow both ways, affecting how we look, feel, listen, show up in good times and bad. It never gets old.
There is nothing necessary or forced. It’s as if you’re together with tender hearts or, as my teacher and inspiration Terry Real says, you hold yourself and each other in ‘warm love’.
As a couple, you also use how you feel around each other, the everyday things you do for them and how they look for you.
But the thoughtful and special things about each other—the things that drew you together in the first place and the things you do for each other that actually make your life easier and better—can be overwhelming when they happen every day. And then everyday life becomes normal.
It’s so easy to overlook things that should be evaluated with your partner in almost every situation.
But they are there, staring you in the face – picking up the kids from school, putting on the shirt they look good in, doing the work, emptying the dishwasher, opening the door for you when your hands are full, listening to you complain about your boss… see?
Look for things your partner says and does that add to your life and you will find one or more that you appreciate.
When you find one, share it as soon as possible. Fill the tanks together.
A pile of good stuff is waiting for you.
And when you create a culture of appreciation, you have goodwill in the bank because when the two of you hit a rough patch – the good things about your partner and your relationship are more likely to come back.
It’s never too late to start the habit of giving thanks.
Another way to increase your communication and get more intimacy and connection instantly is to have a man Create an Instant Connection sit with me
It’s a simple and easy 45-minute session for you and your partner. We have a process that instantly (it’s in the title!) restores the connection (it’s in the title!) and the intimacy that is so easily lost in the stress and busyness of your job, parenting, caregiving, and everything else you do.
– Feel more like roommates than loving partners who are hot for each other?
– When dinner is over and the kids are in bed, is there nothing left for your relationship?
– Has your life become more than the super hot sex and teamwork that started your relationship with who does what and who needs to be where?
Getting to this stage of disconnection and even anger happens so slowly, you don’t realize it’s happening until you’re there.
But you don’t have to stay there. No sir, never.
I love doing it Create an Instant Connection sessions. Time flies because the process is simple and effective and fun.
I see couples light up with the excitement that unfolds for them there and then.
And you take what you learn in the session into your life immediately, that day.
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Bottom line: you’ll learn a simple and powerful way to feel connected during your busy days, and to function as a team in your life that feels supported and cheered on.
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