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We like to improve the factory settings of our meat. From cutting our hair, shaving, plucking, eyelash extensions, spray tanning to skin whitening, if there’s a way to change our bodies, someone out there has probably tried it at some point. Human history is all about our various attempts to add more complexity to what we work with.
Everything we do to our bodies can carry some form of risk, and those risks vary depending on what we decide to experience. Wash off with an exfoliant or give yourself a bikini wax and usually, the worst that will happen is a rash or some gray hairs. However, more extreme forms of body modification like liposuction, breast implants, and leg extensions can cause irreversible damage or even death.
Today’s column comes from a reader who is looking into a very specific form of skin whitening and is not satisfied with his current results. What color bleach? Basic. If you catch my drift. How exactly do you make sure they sit well? Is that even possible? Today we learn!
“I have been following you for a while, attending your classes and workshops.
I was wondering if you could please share your experience and any advice you may have regarding anal bleaching? After trying many products at home with little to no results, and I wonder how professionals like you do it. I don’t know if skin color is important to mention, but I’m white.” – Looking To The Light
Ah, the old household bleaching kits. It was there. Very often. I have some advice and tips for you, yes. Glad you arrived!
So you want to sit on the bunny nose?
One could be forgiven for thinking, upon a cursory survey of the erotic material out there, that every porn producer sticks their ass straight out and sits on a pretty pink bunny nose. Then we hold up a mirror to see what we’re working with and it’s… brown? The dark? Not nice and pink? The horror! What does it take to have a bunny nose? Will some skin whitening do the trick?
To put your mind at ease, darker skin tone in that particular area is completely normal – anything from stress to hormonal changes to melanin can cause it. This is what it is supposed to look like. “But Rain!” I hear you say. “I can see all the holes in porn! And they’re light and bright! Surely that’s because everyone bleaches them to be camera-ready?”
I’ve had very similar conversations in the past with people who are convinced that actresses all get labiaplasty before going on camera. “Nobody looks like that in real life!” they say “There’s got to be some surgical intervention there, right?”
Don’t Look To Porn For An Accurate Representation Of The Human Body
The answer to these questions is no. There are no industrial grade warehouses where performers are directed for breast implants, labiaplasty, and buttock whitening. There are no body modification lists that must be met before a person is allowed to become a professional nudist. It’s not that nobody looks like that in real life – some people do. Those who do may be said to have a body trust.
High levels of body confidence increase your chances of feeling comfortable stripping in front of the camera for others to see, and so what we end up with is an inaccurate representation of what the average person’s body looks like. We can be forgiven for thinking that a doll’s pink bunny nose is the gold standard and if we don’t have it, we should make things more “desirable”.
The truth is that most actors are not white. This is how they look naturally and they are so happy with their luck that they share it with the world. I am not one of those people. I run darker like you. And it took me a while to get used to it.
Even if you do, the whitening is only temporary
Even if you can find a treatment that works, all results are temporary – the skin will definitely return to its natural state. You’ll be signing up for an endless cycle of discomfort and results that don’t last. Like Sisyphus, you’ll be dragging that anal bleaching stone up the hill forever. You may find a lighter shade of confidence, but that brown spot will just come back.
I’m sorry I can’t recommend an effective home remedy, I’ve never seen one that works, and I’ve had a fair look in my day. What worked for me was learning to be okay with my body, even though I would never sit on a little pink bunny nose.
Finally, I learned to accept my feet, no need for bleaching. What if someone wants to shame me or complain that it’s not to their liking? I see that as a clear sign that they don’t deserve to reach or see my core. Complain or shame? Good morning to you, don’t let the door knock on you that the good Lord has divided you. My son and I will sit with people who praise us regularly.
If you are determined to take things easy, seeing a professional will have better results than anything you can try at home. They have lasers, experience and more powerful skin treatments. Good luck with whatever you end up doing, but if you want my advice I would encourage the body acceptance route. There are far fewer lasers and you will save both time and money.
Keep It Kinky My Friends,
GDR
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